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Dear Lee – Do I Have to Contribute?

 

Dear Lee♦:

One of my coworkers is having a baby, and everyone has been asked to contribute money to buy her a present. Frankly, I don't like her. (And they're asking for $50 each!) How do I get out of this?

Sincerely,

Not My Baby

Dear NMB:

Wow! $50 each?! That's going to be some gift!

The problem with not contributing is that you'll be seen as cheap and mean-spirited, especially if everyone else is chipping in. (And who knows – she may have once contributed towards a gift for you.) So the gracious thing to do is to paste a smile to your face, scribble your John Hancock in the card, and cough up the money.

But $50 is a lot. So, another thing you might do is explain to whoever is collecting that the money you can't afford that much right now, and give what you can (or what you think she's worth!).

After all, a baby is something to celebrate, even if you don't like one of its parents.

♦We're now having some of our other writers help out answering the "Dear Cindy" questions. Enjoy!

 

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