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Another New Year's has just passed, and if you've opted for one of the typical resolutions, you've decided to lose weight, exercise more, or quit a nasty habit like smoking. And if you're one to make resolutions, have you considered adding a career-related resolution to your self-improvement goal for the New Year? Most of us spend a significant portion of our lives at work, so it makes sense. Not surprisingly, since self-improvement is rarely easy, people often find resolutions difficult to keep. But in many ways, even making a career-related resolution is more difficult than making a personal one. After all, you know you should lose weight, or should exercise more, or should quit smoking. There's nothing to figure out. But figuring out what to resolve about work is usually more difficult because it involves one's identity, probably one's income, and almost always relationships with other people. Nonetheless, the basis for deciding upon a career resolution is similar to deciding on common lifestyle resolutions: You look at what you feel is lacking in your work or career, what you would like to improve, and/or what you feel dissatisfied with, and make a resolution. The goal is to help you take charge of your career and make those hours you put in mean more than just the source of your paycheck. So for example: • Are you a workaholic
who doesn't want to be one? Resolve
to say "no"
sometimes, to use up your vacation
days each year, not to be a martyr when you're
really sick,
and to spend more time outside
of work – that also means away from your
pager, cell phone, CrackBerry, etc. – and to
spend more time with family or friends, at the gym,
at the theater, or doing whatever you need to do
to get your life back. Or it may be the time to start
gearing towards retirement.
• Are you a perfectionist?
Follow author Julie
Fuimano's advice and resolve to strive
for excellence, rather than perfection. You'll
be much happier and much less stressed.
• Are you experiencing
bad stress, rather than good
stress? Are you burnt out or at risk of burnout?
Read our article Are
You Burned Out?, follow its advice, and resolve
to deal with the problem before it becomes worse.
• Are you bored,
or do you feel that your career is going
nowhere? Does your career need some enhancement?
If you don't know why you're bored, first resolve
to do some self-assessment,
and go to the My
Work Style area of our site to take the ProStyle™
Survey to see which careers are the best matches
for your personality, and maybe even talk to a career
counselor to determine the reason(s) behind
the boredom and learn about options. If you don't
know what the problem is, you can't act to solve
it. Maybe you need new duties, higher level responsibilities
(e.g., charge, management), new challenges (e.g.,
a specialty change, taking on committee work, earning
a higher degree), a new job in a new location, or
even a new career.
• Boss driving
you crazy? First determine whether you
actually have a bad boss, or – be honest –
whether you are a bad employee (e.g., a slacker,
a gossip, a complainer, unhelpful, etc.) who, for
whatever reason (perhaps the boredom mentioned above)
is finding fault with your boss because s/he expects
you to do your job well? Is the boss's behavior something
that should be reported (e.g., is the boss a bully)
and dealt with at higher levels? Is it that your
personalities or your career
orientations clash? If the relationship can
be improved
or repaired, start working on it immediately.
If not, make a decision about whether working
under this boss is worth the stress and aggravation,
or whether you should find a job on a different unit,
in a different department, with another employer,
or in another field. (But if you're a bad employee,
do some work on improving yourself before you look
for a new job – it will help you to get a better
reference.)
• Coworker(s) driving
you crazy? Usually the problem is not
one-sided. But unfortunately, you can only resolve
to change your own behavior, not someone else's behavior.
So remember: You
don't have to like your coworkers; you
just have to work with them. Therefore, if
you like your job and want to stay, resolve to change
what you can, e.g., by being more friendly, trying
to share some of their interests, avoiding gossip,
helping out more, developing a sense of humor, distancing
yourself when they really get your goat, etc. And
resolve to seek help where you can, such as in the
case of bullying.
• Employee(s) driving
you crazy? As in the case of coworkers,
often the problem is not one-sided. At least, as
a boss, you may be able to enforce some positive
changes, in addition to modeling positive behavior
and making personal changes. So for yourself, consider:
Are you fair in delegation of duties, shifts, overtime,
and vacation days? Do you tolerate or engage in gossip
or bullying? Are you communicating
effectively? Do you keep
your staff informed about things that may affect
them? Do you encourage staff to voice their opinions,
make suggestions, and participate in decision-making?
Do you provide feedback on their work, and, when
needed, provide
criticism appropriately and fairly? Do you
support your staff in terms of their ongoing development
and in relations with other departments, levels of
management, etc.? If you're lacking in any of these
things, resolve to improve. And you may even want
to tell your staff that you realize that you haven't
been doing well at, say, communication, but have
resolved to improve this, and would appreciate their
patience and help. But of course the problem may
not be you, so it may be a case of: "I resolve to
fire that employee who is causing problems for everyone
else, and who has shown no improvement despite assistance,
chances, and warnings, even though it will be difficult."
• Not earning enough
money? Resolve to find out what you need
to do to earn more, and do it: Do you need to ask
for a raise, upgrade your education or certification,
work more (or different) hours, change jobs, or change
careers?
• Want to spice
up your career with a little adventure?
Resolve to decide what exactly this means for you
– changing specialties, working in a new city
or a new
country, or doing some volunteer
work overseas, then do the research, make your
plans, and make it happen.
• Are you a procrastinator?
Read our tips in Overcoming
Procrastination, Part One and Overcoming
Procrastination, Part Two, and take action!
Now! And here's a resolution for everyone:
* * * * * To help you succeed, first, believe that you can change things. Second, share your resolution with, and enlist help from family and friends, and where appropriate, from your boss, coworkers, and/or staff. Happy New Year! Discuss This ArticleHave something you'd like to say? Tell us what you think! Read and post comments for this article. Like this article? Read more! Browse our archive of 1,627 career resources. Also, see our master index of all MedHunters articles! Find a JobChoose your career: MedHunters is the world's biggest healthcare job board. Our job directory has 18,046 jobs with 2,503 hospitals and other direct employers. We want you to find your next job on MedHunters. Need Help? Call us at 1-888-884-8242, email us at info@medhunters.com or sign up now. Have an article or story for MedHunters? Email us today at submissions@medhunters.com. |
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